What's the reason you guys have been dating for a long time but don't dare to marry a girlfriend?

Hello friends, I, as a woman, have also been through youth, adolescence, and of course, dating.

Many women have been dating their boyfriends for a long time, but they prefer to marry other guys in the end. In my opinion, all of this can be explained logically from a woman's point of view. It doesn't mean the woman is unfaithful. In fact, it is the guy who is insensitive.

Here are some reasons that make a girl prefer to marry another man rather than her boyfriend, who has been dating for years.

1. Feel bored

I don't mean bored because I don't love or don't love anymore, but how long are you just dating? The ideal age for a woman to get married, in my opinion personally, is 27 years, the oldest. Because of what?

Above that age, most women will find it difficult to get pregnant, or if it's not difficult to give birth which leads to a cesarean section, many think that caesarean section is okay, it's safer, it's less painful, that's what those who didn't experience it say, I myself have directly experienced, the caesarean section has many side effects, bro. Just check it on google.

2. Just a Tool for Satisfying Sex Lust

Who wants to try a woman who just wants to be used as an outlet for libido? But the guy doesn't want to be responsible or get married; he just wants to have fun.

Even though it's not hypocritical, mature women also need sex. Still, if they are hung up without certainty, the girl will definitely go to find another guy who wants to take responsibility.

3. Women Need A Husband's Love

Women Need A Husband's love many of my friends, including myself, even the sistas here, may agree with me. But, as in point number 2 above, what can we try as women? It's just being used to satisfy the lust of unscrupulous men who don't want to be responsible.

Dating has exceeded the limit, even like husband and wife, but not married. I can say that a man like that is a coward.

Even when we are in a relationship that violates such rules, which is often referred to as cohabiting, we as women are given abundant love and even more attention. Still, if we pay close attention, we as women are only made to satisfy lust. What's the difference? Us as women with prostitutes? What is the difference between us and prostitutes or mistresses, who are just objects of lust without certainty?

A woman also needs proper affection, namely the love of a husband, in which a wife's love for her husband will grow, without feeling abused or just being used as a game.

4. Parents both agree, but when asked to marry, they don't want to

Oh, nooo... I really don't like guys like this. The green light is already there, but there are many reasons, not this yet, that's not it. If the reason is not established, the treasure can be found together. Even if the man is normal, he will be more enthusiastic about living because he already has a wife who encourages and takes care of him at home.

So, my message for those who are still single is that you should be picky in finding a boyfriend or partner and don't just want it before you regret it. If you decide to date, you must have a target time, don't want to be hanged without certainty, even for years.

Source : Google, CNN, Popmama